Friday, October 17, 2008
SkyQuestCom's Success Blog: How to Keep the Spark in Your Relationship
In "Keeping the Spark in Your Relationship", Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus best-selling author John Gray shares with you proven tips to keep your relationship sizzling. Discover the secrets on how to communicate effectively with your partner and keep a long, passionate relationship.
In this excerpt from John Gray's full-length video, he shares the 5 Stages of Dating that define the ups and downs that all relationships encounter.
These 5 stages are especially helpful for women in new relationships who are confused by the enthusiasm of a man and then baffled when his interest declines. They're helpful for a man who is interested in a woman and then lost whenever she suddenly needs to think about things.
Attraction - Couples enter the world of attraction starting from the beginning. It's normal that you feel attracted to each other, that you feel an incredible chemistry that makes you say "Wow, this is great! This is wonderful!" This is a time of getting acquainted, and exploring their initial chemistry.
Uncertainty - Once a person begins to explore the idea of becoming committed to the person they are dating, they naturally enter the second stage of dating- uncertainty. Uncertainty can feel quite scary to some people but it's the stage where you consider committing to the person you're dating. They wonder what if they fall out of love because once you get really excited and turned on by someone after a period of time, doubts come out. For example, men ask themselves if they love the women they're dating. And women doubt whether the men they're dating love them.
Exclusivity - If there is a desire to commit, then couples naturally progress to the third stage of dating- exclusivity. This is the stage where couples build the foundation for their relationships. Couples begin to learn about their true selves because they are finally able to relax and know they are committed. At this stage, attraction will "ding-dong" between "greater" and "lesser".
Intimacy - As a couple works through this stage, they will ultimately begin to consider their deeper feelings of love. As these feelings grow, the couple will naturally progress into the fourth stage of dating - intimacy . This is a fun and enlightening stage and where you begin to explore your physical relationship in greater depth.
Engagement - Finally, if you're in love and ready for marriage you enter the fifth stage of dating - engagement. Here you begin exploring all of the wonders that being engaged and entering a married relationship can bring.
What you'll discover in "Keeping the Spark in the Relationship"
- How to overcome the differences between men and women
- How to maintain long and passionate relationship
- How to adapt to the changes in your relationship as a result of economic changes
- Fundamentals in selecting a life-long partner
- The easiest way to calm an angry partner down
- And more!
You can learn from the full-length video of "Keeping the Spark in the Relationship" and access over 200 online seminars of the world's best speakers and success coaches at http://www.SkyQuestCom.com
To watch a video clip of John Gray's video seminar, just follow these simple steps:
1. Go to http://www.skyquestcom.com/
2. Move your mouse over "Watch our featured seminars" on the left menu
3. On the Free Demos list, locate "Lifestyle" and click "View Demo"
4. Locate "Keeping the Spark in the Relationship" and click "Product Demo"
SkyQuestCom offers online video seminars of the world's best personal development experts and business gurus that will change your life! Now you can be personally coached by world famous speakers in your own home, including Anthony Robbins (Unleash The Power Within), Robert Kiyosaki (Rich Dad, Poor Dad), Brian Tracy (The Psychology of Selling), T. Harv Eker (Secrets of the Millionaire Mind), John Gray (Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus), Jay Abraham (Getting Everything You Can Out of All You've Got), Bill Gates, Warren Buffett and many more.
Labels: communication skills, John Gray, men are from mars, relationship advice, relationships, SkyQuestCom, Success Blog, women are from venus
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